So far as this writer is aware, no western religion has endorsed the concept of filial piety to the extent that it has been embraced in Confucian thought. Most western traditions involve the commandment to “honor your parents”. Contemporary non-Confucian views have never endorsed the reverence and deference taught by Confucius. Upon reaching adulthood, one becomes responsible for the major decisions of one’s life. If your parents do not agree with or approve those life choices, while that may be regrettable, one nevertheless has the moral and intellectual responsibility to make and live by one’s own choices. Often, western adult children of aging parents do make serious economic and life-style sacrifices to accommodate the health or economic needs of elderly parents, although only some consider it a moral obligation. The difference between the Confucian and the western views of filial piety seems to be a genuine case of cultural relativity.
Kenneth
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- The Essences of Prayer
- Questioning Salvation
- A Minority View
- Most Assuredly a Curse
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- Reincarnation
- Too Much Money
- Both Are Vital
- Godless Items
- My Heresies
- A Gift
- The Defenseless Theist
- Nothing is Unforgivable
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- Enhance Social Involvement
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- No Single Role
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- The Cult of the Market
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- Try Something New
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- Consider the Evidence
- The Sources of Life Satisfaction
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- Some Religions Promotes Wealth
- Harry Confronts Evil
- A Phony Choice
- A False Dichotomy
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- No Love & No Hate
- No Taxes = No Politics
- “God will provide”
- The Occult Reported
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- It Depends …
- God Is Both
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- The Religious Poor
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- Blessed Silence
- False Religions
- Language Askew
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- A Faulty Assumption
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- Absolutely Not!
- Religious Flux
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- Justified Fear
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- Yes & No
- Conditions on Friendship?
- The Stillness of Meditation
- Parsing Piety
- Hell Yes
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- A Vexed Issue
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- It Is Neither
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- Why We Err
- An Agnostic’s Position
- A Ban Achieves Little
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- An Open Question
- Avoid the Doctrinaire
- Conflicting Beliefs
- Goodbye, Joe
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- Veiled Liberty
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- My Unhappiness
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- Spiritual Irritants
- Religion Not a Panacea
- Who Knows?
- A Middling Sin
- Divine Law in Flux
- Views of Jesus
- No Necessary Standards
- Universal Liberty
- Complicated Desires
- Denying Evil
- Assuredly Imperfect
- Divine Dress Codes
- Naked Is Good
- Spiritual Alzheimers
- The Perplexity of Death
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- Elusive Truth
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- No Programmed Belief
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- Intellectual Sloth
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- Don’t do it!
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- A Cultural Lag
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- Evil Is Real
- A Vexing Question
- An Uncaring God
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